I was chatting with Mie the other day and he told me something that caught my attention instantly. One of his close friends asked him:

Don’t you ever want to get another girlfriend for yourself, beside the one that you already have now? You have admirers here, you know.

Oh man. I’m downright sure that I’m capable to smack hard on his friend’s face if he asks something like that right in front of me. His friend suggested that since I am no where near him. WTF. I think it’s rather rude. No, I’m not going to write down everything on what he replied to that question. I don’t want to get too personal here. All I gotta say, his response made me smile all day. Haha. :love2:

Mie told me everything about the current love scenes in his uni. Loads of his friends have broken up with their long-distance relationship partner. Does that actually mean that long distance relationship won’t last? I’ve never experienced one but I don’t think so. As long as you trust each other and remain truthful, it may work out. I know, I may not be the right person to say this but I do believe that nothing is impossible.

Many of those who broke up might have their own reasons. For instance, after a while, they may start to feel lonely and begin to look around to search for what the relationship market has to offer. But looking at the world now, I don’t think that can be accepted as a reason. There are things called the telephone, e-mails and instant messenger, you know. It wouldn’t be the same as going out together but at least, you could still keep in touch with your loved ones. :-) People said (people, not I said okay :hehe: ) that, long distance relationship won’t work out if it involves… sex. I dunno how true this could be anyway.

Anyhow, I don’t blame those who broke up due to the reason above. I would probably feel the same too but not to the extend of finding someone else. I believe in relationships that have strong faith with each other. And I hope this current relationship of mine will be the first and the last. (Why am I being lovey-dovey all of sudden? LOL. :hehe: )

Well, while others will break up with their current partner since they can’t cope with long-distance relationship, there are some people who would simply cheat their partners behind their back. They get another partner. This applies to both genders, mind you. I’ve seen these kind of people in reality. This is the group of people that makes me really sick. WTH. Just think this way. What would your other partner feel if they ever find out about this? It’s surely going to be a heart-breaking moment.

As for me, I trust him with all my heart. I know I can. :love:

P.s. Don’t tell me how stupid I am to trust a guy with such faith. I know what I’m doing and I don’t need your advice. Thank you! :-P

P.p.s. I miss him dearly. We rarely go out together recently. Once in a month. And it’s gonna be longer than that in the future. Being a mad med student is tough! :yuck:

P.p.p.s. Mine isn’t a long distance relationship. But we’re in different universities and different part of Jakarta. I’m more to the east and he’s more to the west. LOL. And people, Jakarta is freaking big okay.